💌 A Note from Shizuka ｜ First Meeting: What Should You Talk About?
If you tend to get shy or nervous, feel free to save this post ❤️
Honestly, you don’t need to prepare a long list of topics or worry about “What if I say something awkward?”
With just a few simple tips, you can enjoy a natural and relaxed time together even on your first meeting 🥰
① What to say first? A simple “Hello~” is more than enough!
No need to overthink clever icebreakers 🤣
A warm smile and a light greeting will naturally break the ice.
If you’re unsure how to address her, asking “What should I call you?” is completely natural ❤️
② Not sure what to chat about? Start with simple, easy topics!
🍜 Which do you prefer: Ramen, Yakiniku, or Sushi?
☕️ Are you a coffee person or milk tea person?
🎮 Do you play video games?
📺 Any anime or TV shows you’re currently into?
🇯🇵 Got any favorite food spots or recommended places in Japan?
Sharing stories about your travels, meals, or where you went today works great too!
Don’t worry too much about “What should I ask next?” Flowing naturally is best 🥰
③ Personal questions are better left for when you get closer
Things like work, where you live, private plans, family, love life, or “Why are you doing this job?”
It’s not strictly forbidden to ask, but these can be tricky to answer during a first meeting.
If she laughs it off, gives a brief reply, or shifts the subject, simply go with the flow and switch to another topic~ No need to feel awkward ❤️
④ The most important rule: You don’t have to pretend to be experienced! 🤣
It’s completely normal to feel nervous if it’s your first time.
Whether you’re shy, not great at chatting, or worried about your Japanese skills, you don’t need to stress over “Am I doing this right?”
If you prefer taking things slow, enjoy a quiet vibe, or want someone energetic to take the lead, just let Shizuka know beforehand ❤️
I can recommend a girl whose personality matches your preferences perfectly and brief her in advance.
That way, both of you can relax easily 🥰 Just take it easy and enjoy the moment~
After all, it’s not a job interview! 🤣
If there’s anything difficult to say or convey, feel free to consult Shizuka quietly in advance ❤️
If you ever need any assistance, you can always reach out to me~
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